How to Flag as Kinky on a Dating Site
Dating while kinky is hard! The majority of people are vanilla (or think they are), so having BDSM proclivities can narrow your dating pool significantly, especially if your kinks are a crucial part...
View ArticleThe “Helpless Little Slut” Instruction Manual
Author’s note: Last Christmas Eve, I had just met my boyfriend 2 weeks earlier and already we were sexting rather frequently and intensely. He was my Sir and my daddy, and I was his good girl and his...
View Article5 Quick Tips For Gifting Sex Toys
It’s holiday time, and maybe you’re planning on buying a sex toy for your sweetheart, your best friend, or your mom. (Hey, I don’t know your life.) But let’s face it: the vast majority of people who...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 12 Femme Essentials
Hello! Today kicks off 12 Days of Girly Juice, my yearly 12-part wrap-up of the things I loved most throughout the year. Over the next month, I’ll be sharing my fave sex toys, events, sexual...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 11 Favorite Blog Posts
I wrote over 125 blog posts this year. It’ll be 137+ if you count this 12 Days of Girly Juice series. That’s 2.63 blog posts a week, for the whole year. Uhhh. I wasn’t joking when I said that...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 10 Perfect Sex Songs
Welcome back to 12 Days of Girly Juice, my year-end celebration of all things sexy and beloved! Today I’m writing about 10 of the best songs I enjoyed for sensual (and adjacent) purposes this year…...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 9 Best New Sex Toys
Today is one of the most exciting instalments of 12 Days of Girly Juice: I’m picking my top 9 favorite sex toys I acquired within the past year! These toys stood out from the slush pile, and are worth...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 8 Classic Tweets
I hit 9,000 followers on Twitter recently! Hoping to get to 10K in 2019. My crew on there is such a beloved part of my day and I enjoy sharing my weird thoughts with them. Here are 8 of my favorite...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 7 Bangin’ Selfies
Today’s 12 Days of Girly Juice post highlights the 7 selfies I took this year that really tell the story of my 2018, which was… a difficult call, to say the least. Also, yeesh, it was hard not to make...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 6 Journal Entries
Where my fellow journaling fans at?! I flicked through all my journal entries from the entirety of 2018 (phew!) and picked 6 of my faves for you… January 30th I’ve been in love 3 times before and...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 5 Sex-Savvy Superheroes
Welcome back to 12 Days of Girly Juice, my year-end wrap-up series! Today I’m talking about 5 people who’ve influenced and inspired me massively this year in the arenas of sex, kink, and love… Nadine...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 4 Fun Events
Hi, friends! Today’s 12 Days of Girly Juice instalment is all about sexy and sex-adjacent events I attended in 2018 – and because I am such a lucky lady, there were lots of them. However, these 4 were...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 3 Fave Encounters
Welcome to what is always the filthiest entry in my 12 Days of Girly Juice series: the one where I write about my favorite 3 sexual encounters of the entire year. Moreso than being the best sex of my...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 2 Fears Defeated
I’ve conquered a lot of fears in the past few years, or at least attempted to. Hell, life with an anxiety disorder is basically just a long process of battling fears, like walking through a brambly...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 1 Fantastic Toy Company
Every December, I choose and highlight one company whose products tangibly improved my year, and that I think all my readers need to know about. Usually it’s a tricky decision, but the astute among...
View ArticleSextistics: An End-of-Year Sexual Stats Breakdown (2018)
Happy new year, friends! I hope your New Year’s Eve was lovely and that your 2019 brings exciting experiences, sweet comforts, big laughs, and as much (or as little) sex as you would like. As you...
View Article5 Features I Wish All Dating Apps Had
Dating apps are exhausting. As App Store searches and online reviews here will attest, there are soooo many of them – a surprising amount of which are more gimmicky than functional. I’m dating an app...
View ArticleRoleplay and Rapport at the Library Bar
Maybe I shouldn’t have arrived so early. Why do I always do this? I glance over my shoulder at the door again. Maybe he’ll show up in five minutes. Maybe he’ll show up now. I always get nervous before...
View ArticleReview: Blush Novelties Avant Pride P1
There have been many debates on my social media timelines recently about objects’ aesthetics versus their usefulness. Some people say, for example, that there’s no reason to keep books once you’ve...
View ArticleSex Sells, Part 1: Selling Nudes
I’ve always loved good-lookin’ nudes. When I was a young(er) pervy little thing, I would creep to the family computer in the dead of night and surf SuicideGirls, GodsGirls, and archives of old Bettie...
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