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A Month’s Worth of Phone Sex
Content notes for this post (in alphabetical order): ageplay, alcohol, bruising, bullying, confined spaces, consensual non-consent, Daddy Dom/little girl roleplay, face-fucking, fingerfucking,...
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Love and Lust: The Universal Language?
At the top of the Palatino in Rome. Where did the fantasy first arise in my life of having sex with someone who doesn’t speak English and whose language I do not speak? Was it the Love Actually subplot...
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That Time I Pissed In My Boyfriend’s Mouth
Content note: this post deals heavily and graphically with watersports/piss-play, and also mentions Daddy Dom/little girl roleplay, impact play, and tipsy sex. Bex: How do you not have a watersports...
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On Being a Sex Doll
Content note: this post deals with consensual objectification and erotic hypnosis. It also mentions dissociation during sex. For many people, sex is about being intensely immersed in the moment....
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Behind the Seams: Besotted in Boston
September 21st, 2018. I always get anxious about travel. It can be an anxiety-provoking thing for anyone, but it’s particularly become a trigger for me since I missed a flight a couple years ago due to...
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Upgrade Your Magic Wand With These Neat Accessories
The Magic Wand – formerly produced under the Hitachi name, now still manufactured by Hitachi but distributed and branded by Vibratex – is, it must be said, a legend. You know a sex toy has truly...
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5 Incredibly Gorgeous Femme Cocks
I’m thinking a lot about the concept of the “femme cock” lately, because pegging is an increasingly significant part of my sex life. Recently my partner mentioned wanting to be fucked with something...
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When Your Partner Comes Out As Your Partner
It all started when a friend kept referring to my boyfriend’s other partner as his “primary partner.” Granted, this friend isn’t super schooled in the technicalities of non-hierarchical polyamory. He...
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Intimate Intercourse: Hypnokink (Part 1)
Hello! Intimate Intercourse is a series where I interview my boyfriend/Sir/daddy, who goes by Super Sleepy Dude, about various topics related to sex and kink. Previously we’ve talked about phone sex...
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Intimate Intercourse: Hypnokink (Part 2)
Hi again! Welcome back to Intimate Intercourse, a series where I interview my boyfriend/Sir/daddy, who goes by Super Sleepy Dude, about various topics related to sex and kink. This week we’re...
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Intimate Intercourse: Hypnokink (Part 3)
Hello again! Welcome back to Intimate Intercourse, a series where I interview my boyfriend/Sir/daddy, who goes by Super Sleepy Dude, about various topics related to sex and kink. This week we’re...
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Blue Suede; He Stayed
I’m a sucker for physical objects that represent relationships. I still occasionally wear an ex-boyfriend’s boxers, clutch a stuffed bunny that a beau bought me when I can’t sleep, sigh contentedly at...
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Monthly Faves: Steel Wands & Sweet Words
Hope you had a pleasantly scary Halloween! Here are some things I enjoyed in October… Sex toys • We-Vibe sent me their Anniversary Collection and I adore it. It contains updated (and sparkly!)...
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Behind the Seams: Fetishwear & Mean Girls
September 29th, 2018. A new-ish dungeon space in my city was having a hypnokink play party, and my Sir encouraged me to go. This is normally the kind of thing that would activate my anxiety a lot –...
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Interior Dickorator: How to Make Your Home a Sex-Positive Sanctuary
They say home is where the heart is. Home is also – for many of us – where you get to be your most authentic self. And if you’re a kinky sex nerd like me, maybe that means your home is a palace of...
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5 Tools I Use to Write About Past Experiences
You may have noticed that I write a lot of personal stuff. Stuff about my sex life. Stuff about my relationships. Even stuff about my childhood. Friends reading my work often remark that I “must have...
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More Toronto Date Spots
I’ve written about my favorite date locations in Toronto before, but now I am a grown-ass adult. Just kidding. Very much not that. However, since writing that post, I did start dating someone who has...
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Protocol Diaries: To-Do, Ta-Da!
It started – as many of our protocols do – with a more unofficial version, before either of us could acknowledge with confidence that we wanted something more. Throughout the early months of our D/s...
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Holiday Gift Ideas For… Your Submissive
Did your sub provide faithful service all year? Did they take all the pain/humiliation/orgasms you inflicted on them with aplomb? Do they just have the cutest goddamn face in the world? If so, they...
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Holiday Gift Ideas For… Your Dominant
Got no ideas for a holiday gift for your dom, even though they have seemingly neverending ideas for things to do to you? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered! Here are some suggestions… A planned date...
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