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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 8 Brilliant Books
At time of writing, I’ve read 44 books this year – yay! Reading has given me so much pleasure during the pandemic, with its ability to sweep me away into worlds that aren’t wracked by quick-spreading...
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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 7 Bangin’ Selfies
It’s time for the most self-indulgent instalment of this series: the one where I show you my fave selfies of the year and tell you about why they were meaningful to me! Let’s jump in… Content note:...
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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 6 Journal Entries
Content note: There’s some depressing stuff in here about climate change, fascism, etc. February 7th A Spiritual Practice for Quarantine wake up, take your meds stretch & pee & check your...
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Sexual Fantasies vs. Sexual Reality
Things that happen in my fantasies about giving blowjobs: effortless deep-throating that thick and messy type of spit a constant flow of half-moaned praise getting absurdly turned on Things that can...
View Article12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 5 Sex-Savvy Superheroes
With so much of my life this year taking place indoors, I relied even more on my favorite media-makers to keep me entertained, informed, and uplifted. All 5 of my picks for this year’s sex-savvy...
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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 4 Fun Events
Bex introducing me at the 101 Kinky Things book launch – photo by Rose Glass Photography It’s hard to write this annual feature about events I’ve attended when I’ve (like all of you) been living...
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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 3 Fave Encounters
Strap in, folks… We’re talking about some of the best sex I had all year! Like I did last year, I’ve asked my partner Matt to contribute some thoughts on each of the scenes/sessions I picked, so...
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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 2 Fears Defeated
Every year I write about 2 fears that I’ve faced head-on over the course of the year. It’s a way of re-teaching myself a lesson that I (and many others) need to re-learn periodically: that pushing...
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12 Days of Girly Juice 2021: 1 Fantastic Company
Image via the Pleasure Tailor Today, 12 Days of Girly Juice comes to a close! And I’m finishing it in the way I always do: by highlighting one company in the sex industry that I think is doing...
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Review: Monster Pub Doctor Whale 2
I’ve always been pretty ambivalent about doing Kegel exercises. I know they’re good for my sexual and urinary health, but so are all the orgasms I have. I know you can do them anywhere – waiting in...
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Sextistics 2021: An End-of-Year Sexual Stats Breakdown
It’s that time again, friends! Time for me to comb through my sex spreadsheet, crunch some numbers, and present you with a statistical portrait of my sex life this year. (Previously: 2020, 2019,...
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Review: Treediride Adele 3-in-1 Thruster
Since the beginning of my career as a sex toy reviewer, I have gotten annoyed at internal vibrators and wished they could thrust in addition to (or instead of) vibrating. While I know there are plenty...
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6 Reasons I Sucked at Being a Webcam Performer
I have the greatest respect for webcam performers, in part because I have done small and infrequent versions of what they do, and have found it to be almost insurmountably difficult for me (as I think...
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31 Things I Do to Combat Loneliness During the Pandemic
I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that loneliness has been a serious problem for many of us during the pandemic. As a hardcore introvert who doesn’t live alone, I’ve been spared the worst of it, but...
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Review: Honeypot CBD-Infused Lube
Image via Honeypot Since both my vagina and I are stoners, I’ve tried a fair number of CBD-infused lubes. The effects they boast are impressive: heightened sensation better orgasms muscle relaxation...
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4 Hot Roleplays You Can Do At Home
Being at home all the time can get pretty monotonous, and that monotony can start to show up in your sex life too. I don’t know about you, but when I think about “shaking things up” sexually, my mind...
View ArticleI Wrote a Song that Answers One of the Most Common Sex Questions in the World
One of the topics I’ve always cared most about as a sex educator is the importance of clitoral stimulation. Maybe it comes from the many hours I’ve spent trawling the /r/Sex subforum on Reddit, on...
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3 Porn Clips I Wish Existed
What my computer sees when I’m watching porn I don’t know, maybe these already do exist. Maybe I just haven’t looked hard enough. It can take hours to stumble across the right search string to locate...
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How I Find Creative Inspiration When Life Becomes Monotonous
I’ve been reading a lot of books and articles on songwriting lately as I dive back into it for my 2022 “A Song A Week” challenge, and there’s a pretty fundamental divide between people who think...
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Realistic vs. Non-Realistic Dildos: Which Should You Get?
A Fleshjack dildo cuddling with the Easy A Is there any type of sex toy as hotly debated as the realistic dildo? Okay, yes, almost certainly there is. Moral panics arise perennially about people...
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